Chance Looses an Implant

Chance had a desperate few hours last week. He couldn't find one of the 

battery packs for his implants.

When he called home, he told us that he had looked everywhere and couldn't find it.

He and his companion had looked everywhere they could think of and had come up empty.

Since they are still spending most of their time in their flat due to COVID 19, it was hard to imagine

where an implant battery pack could have ended up since

it wasn't really going to that many places. 

Chance was starting to get a little nervous about its whereabouts 

and when he did finally find it, he sheepishly told us that

he had found it in one of his pant pockets that was in the laundry.

He may have had a panic moment with his implant battery pack, but on the positive side,

he and his companion are allowed out of the flat for about 3 hours a day now, 

so they have been able to do some exploring of their English hometown.

He has been sending home some nice pictures that give us a feel for his place of residence. 

Here is part of what Chance shared this week in his email home:

The only pictures I took this week were from our walks. We found this amazing Woodlands place that we can explore now and It has been just amazing. The last picture is a cemetery we visited on one of our walks. 

We also had a jeopardy game with the missionaries in our stake and it was so much fun! Elder Sprouse and I did so good and came up in first! It was a lot of question about the bible, book of Mormon, church history, and other miscellaneous things as well. 

We are now allowed to go for 3 hour walks each day and it has been a wonderful blessing! I have loved every minute I have had outside. It is so amazing!

This week I wanted to share a thought from Mosiah 24:14-15 

  14 And I will also ease the burdens which are put upon your shoulders, that even you cannot feel them upon your backs, even while you are in bondage; and this will I do that ye may stand as witnesses for me hereafter, and that ye may know of a surety that I, the Lord God, do visit my people in their afflictions.

  15 And now it came to pass that the burdens which were laid upon Alma and his brethren were made light; yea, the Lord did strengthen them that they could bear up their burdens with ease, and they did submit cheerfully and with patience to all the will of the Lord.

This is the Lord talking to Alma and his brethren in their afflictions. They have been through persecution by Amulon and his people. The first thing they did was call out upon the Lord and ask for his help. They didn't try to get themselves out, rather, they trusted in God and called upon him. I love this scripture because whatever our burdens are, however big for small they are, they can be made light. 

The Savior performed his great atoning sacrifice to not only cover our mistakes, sins, weaknesses, and shortcomings, he did it as a means to allow our burdens to be lightened from off our backs and our shoulders. The Savior has already felt all those burdens. We don't need to go through those burdens ourselves because we are not relying on the Savior, that would be defeating the whole purpose of Christ's Atonement. So allow the Savior to help you. Give everything over to him, and trust in him wholly. 

In so doing, we can be strengthened and submit cheerfully to the will of the Lord, and live joyful grand lives! This is my testimony, our burdens can and will be lifted because of the great enabling power of Christ's Atonement. 

I love you all! I hope you have a great week! Please let me know how you are doing and if there is anything I can do for you.

8 Weeks in the Flat

Chance has spent a LOT of time in his flat. I bet he knows every nook and granny of the place he calls home. 

He may be spending a lot of time in his flat, but he has been able to see some incredible things

on his daily walks judging from the pictures he takes.

The cathedral in front of the sun.

An artillery tower.

A really old boat dock stop.

Being out and seeing nature is really good for Chance's mental health.

He loves all things nature and being able to see animals.

He has always been this way.

I am sure that seeing the duck in the pond was a special treat for him.

Here is what Chance had to say this week in his weekly email home:

大家好!

Hello everybody! Another week has come and gone, it seems to fly by like it did when we were outside now. Which is really weird. It has been 54 (7 weeks, 5 days) days since we have been inside. People keep asking me how I do this, and how I have not been going insane. It kind of surprises me too. I have gone a little insane, don't get me wrong, If I hadn't, then there would be something wrong with me haha. I think a lot of it has been that we've been able to continue to focus on others and their needs even though we are all inside. We have been working with a lot of members and this past week we have been able to communicate with a couple of people that could potentially be interested in the Gospel so we will see how that goes!
We haven't been able to teach a whole lot of nonmembers since we have been inside. Most of the people we were teaching returned back to China. However, we have been able to learn a lot of lessons while in Isolation. I have learned a lot about patience, humility, and other things while here. It has been amazing. As my mission president's wife, Sister Green told me last week, "You are getting a crashcourse of a whole lot of lessons that will set you up for the rest of your life." It's so true! We can all learn lessons that will help us when we come out of Quarantine.

I want to share a thought with you that I got from a BYU speech that Elder Bednar gave called, "In the Strength of the Lord." He said:

"There is no physical pain, no anguish of soul, no suffering of spirit, no infirmity or weakness that you or I ever experience during our mortal journey that the Savior did not experience first. You and I in a moment of weakness may cry out, “No one understands. No one knows.” No human being, perhaps, knows. But the Son of God perfectly knows and understands, for He felt and bore our burdens before we ever did. And because He paid the ultimate price and bore that burden, He has perfect empathy and can extend to us His arm of mercy in so many phases of our life. He can reach out, touch, and succor—literally run to us—and strengthen us to be more than we could ever be and help us to do that which we could never do through relying only upon our own power."

I love this. The Savior understands you and I perfectly, even in quarantine. This event is no surprise to him. He felt all of this before it even happened. In those times when you feel annoyed, angry, frustrated, sad, lonely, or anything else in this circumstance, know that the Savior understands. It doesn't just take remembering the Savior and his sacrifice that is going to help us, we have to act. We need to call upon the enabling power of Christ to cover all of our weaknesses, imprefections, and mistakes. We need to pray and say, I need help with this situation I am going through, please give me the strength to endure through it.
In this talk he talks a lot about how in times of hardships, instead of asking to be delivered FROM our trials, we need to ask to be delivered IN our trials.
I invite you to read through this talk. It has a lot of amazing insights and it helped me understand so much more about what the Atonement of Christ is. Here is the link for the talk.

https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/david-a-bednar/strength-lord/

Pictures: We've been able to explore a lot of England on our walks everyday! 

Chance Gets to Play Cowboy

The current pandemic has caused a lot of pain and suffering for many people worldwide

and I certainly don't mean to make light of that suffering.

I did have to chuckle a little bit though, when I saw Chance in his make shift mask

for going out......it is a bandana....just like the bandanas that

Chance used to wear when he played cowboy as a  little boy.

Chance also mentioned in his last email home, that his hair was growing a bit long

as he has not been out to get a haircut for quite a while now and the picture of him in his 

 bandana mask also shows that his hair is quite a bit longer than it used to be.

Chance is still spending all day in his flat, only going out when he and his mission 

companion need food once a week and for their daily walk. 

Chance had this to share in his email this week:

I wanted to share with y'all a thought that I had this past week from my Personal Study. I was studying a lot about faith, hope, and charity. More specifically Hope. While I was studying this I read Ether 12:4. It says: 

"4 Wherefore, whoso believeth in God might with surety hope for a better world, yea, even a place at the right hand of God, which hope cometh of faith, maketh an anchor to the souls of men, which would make them sure and steadfast, always abounding in good works, being led to glorify God."

I loved this scripture because it mentions the word Anchor. Hope is an anchor. It helps us to continue forward. It helps us to be rooted in the gospel of Jesus Christ and trust that he has a plan, and that he knows the way, and that through him all things can be accomplished. Going along with that, Elder Holland's most recent General Conference address was amazing! And I loved that he shared that even though we have Hope's that may not come true in the near future, we can know that someday, somehow, in some way, we can have our Hope's and righteous desires. 

I hope you all had a fantastic Easter even though it was different. Keep being awesome and keep doing what you can to stay sane. Keep praying for this Coronavirus to be lifted so that we can return to a "normalized life". Don't know that will look like or when that'll be, but we can trust in God.

Chance and I have been talking about the rebirth that spring brings and about how the

earth is putting on a display of her visual delights and smells.

I asked Chance to take pictures of some of the blossoms he is seeing on his walks and he sent 

me this beauty:

I will have to send a picture in return of the tulips that are blossoming all

across our front yard.

Chance Can Cook

Chance is still spending each day chilling out in his flat each day as the COVID 19 

pandemic moves through England.

I am very grateful that boy learned to cook.

He is making some good meals and at least eating more than

junk food.

He continues to study his scriptures each day, refine his language skills

in Mandarin and prepare for the day when he and his 

companion can go back out into the world.

Chance's phone calls home and his Facebook posts are uplifting

to all of us and help us stay connected.

I am excited to see the pictures he sends home of spring in England.

He forgot to attach his pictures this week though we 

got the descriptions of what each picture was.

We'll just have to wait for next week to see the actual pictures, although
we do know from his descriptions that we will see a swan on a river.

This is what Chance had to say in his email home this week:

General Conference https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/general-conference/?lang=eng was truly amazing and such a blessing. I am truly grateful for the opportunity to have my questions that I had, answered. It was great to hear the wonderful messages. There was a lot of different overall themes, and one of them that I loved was talking about Unity. 

My family and friends, unity is so key in this gospel. We all have differences, we all have different ideas sometimes, but that is okay. Because these differences truly can compliment each other. It is when we all come together that great things come to pass. We are all sons and daughters of God, let's unite in the same thing that we all believe in, Jesus Christ and his Gospel. Everything else will fall into place. 

Keep reviewing through the general conference talks frequently. It will bring many blessings into your life. As president Nelson said (I'm paraphrasing), As we listen to the prophets and apostles, we will be guided through this maze. And we will have more power to resist the adversary and his tactics. We will also have power to get through our trials. 

I love you all so much! Keep doing what you can in quarantine. I invite each of you to use social media as a platform to share the gospel and the wonderful peace and hope that it brings. You never know who it can reach. So start posting stuff about the gospel, if we all do it, the whole world will see it, and more and more will increasingly become interested in what we share. 

Chance is still in England

                                     Yes, Elder Paxton is still on his mission in England.

The world has titled a bit on it's axis since there was an update on Elder Paxton.

As of this moment, Chance and his companion are laying low in their flat.

They are not leaving the flat except for when they need food, 

 and 

are staying away from other people.

Chance and his companion can go out on walks to get some exercise once a day and they 

have been doing that.

Chance has sent some pictures of the sights he is seeing on his walks.

People keep asking me if I am worried about Chance being over in England

so far from home during this time of uncertaintly.

I love Chance with all of my heart, but I know that he is in God's hands.

I had a personal witness when Chance left on his mission that God is looking out for my boy and

that he is where he needs to be.

We are so grateful for his mission president and his wife along

with other church leaders who love these missionaries as well

and are keeping up on the latest news of how the virus is

acting in England and are helping the missionaries take the necessary precautions.

It truly is the Lord's work that Chance and all other missionaries are involved in

My heart aches for those who are suffering and have lost loved ones

during the onslaught of this virus.

It is hard to understand sometimes why things happen and why people must suffer.

I don't have all of the answers to that.

But the verse of scripture that keeps coming to my mind, and that Chance 

and I have talked about is found in the 46th Psalm:

"Be still and know that I am God."

And that is the scripture that I think about when I think about my boy

being across the world in a country that is having a surge

in virus cases right now.

Now Chance and his companion are confined mostly to their flat unless they

need to go out for food or to take a walk for exercise.

This can be a challenging situation for young men, to be confined

to your flat, but they are studying, teaching people when they can through other means
other than physical contact, and working on their Mandarin language skills.
God bless us all, where ever we are located, through this unprecedented time
Sending out love to all.

Here is what Chance has had to say during the past few weeks:

"Thy walk today with me
Has made my heart within me burn,
As I communed with thee."
My favorite lines from one of my favorite hymns "Abide with Me; 'Tis Eventide"

I take comfort in this, knowing that I can walk with my Savior and be filled with his Love, Peace, Comfort, and Joy. No matter what I am going through, I know that when I get on my knees and pray, I can feel his presence.

He is walking with us. He leads and guides each one of us. He is in the very details of our lives.

We will all go through hard times, but we do not need to face it alone. We have a Savior who understands everything that we go through. Who, when we go through hard times, we can call out to him, saying, "O Savior, Stay this night with me; Behold 'tis eventide."

He is there for you. He will not leave you comfortless. Take his hand, and let him guide you. He loves you and wants what is best for you. Rely on him, let him become your rock and foundation.

I invite you to hand everything over to the Savior. Give him all your worries, your sadness, your pain, and anything else you are feeling. He will take it from off your shoulders. Pray, and ask for his help, for his peace and comfort. Ask for the strength to get through everything you are going through. We are all going through something, no matter who we are, and can use his Peace and his Comfort.

As you pray and hand everything over to him, I promise that you will feel his peace and love for you. You will feel lighter.

He truly wants to help you.

Take His Hand, and Walk with Him.

Chance Continues His Adventures in England

Chance continues to serve in England. He continues to have many incredible experiences

and loves the people he is meeting and teaching.

He and his companion have been holding an English class for Chinese people

who want to learn or better their English.

He has really enjoyed it and has met some incredible people. 

Chance has also had opportunities to indulge in some of his favorite past times.

Playing in a soccer simulation on his P-day

(Preparation day, which happens once a week and is the day missionaries

do their laundry, go grocery shopping, clean their flat, have opportunities to

play sports with other missionaries and sometimes sight see

in the area where they live.)

He was also able to hold Bobby again, Chance loves every opportunity to 

bond with animals and he seems to have developed a 

particular liking for Bobby.

Chance has also discovered there in England that he loves Thai food.

A member took Chance and his companion out to eat at a Thai restuarant

and now our boy has a new love.

The mango ice cream for dessert was also a favorite.

He also saw an amazing sunset and Chance loves his sunsets.

Chance engaging in a soccer simulation activity.

Chance discovers a new love in life.

A feast of Thai food.

Mango Ice Cream

Chance and Bobby

A beautiful sunset that Chance saw from the train.

Here is a bit of what Chance had to say in his email home:

This past week has been really good! We've been able to see a lot of good work come from our efforts!
We've been contacting and talking with a ton of Asian people (Mostly Chinese, and some people from Vietnam, Thailand, and Nepal).
We had a really successful Chinese Class this past week. We had 15 different people come and we had so much fun with them all! We taught them about some English slang words and idioms. It was so fun! We are now teaching a girl that we met at English Class and she also came to church with us yesterday!

The Chinese language, culture, and people are incredible! It has been so great and fun talking to and getting to know Chinese People! They are such fun and are amazing people!
We've been having a lot more lessons with Chinese people and it has been truly amazing! We have been speaking and listening to more Chinese and it has been developing my Chinese skills a ton!

This past week I've been read 1 Nephi 16-18 and it has been amazing. I have grown to love Nephi so much! There are a couple of verses that I absolutely love. The first is in 1 Nephi 17 verse 8-9.
"And it came pass that the Lord spake unto me, saying: Thou shalt construct a ship, after the manner which I shall show thee, that I may carry thy people across these waters.
And I said: Lord, whither shall I go that I may find ore to molten, that I may make tools to construct the ship after the manner which thou hast shown unto me?"
And the second verse is 1 Nephi 16:23
"And it came to pass that I, Nephi, did make out of wood a bow, and out of a straight stick, an arrow; wherefore, I did arm myself with a bow and an arrow, with a sling and with stones. And I said unto my father: Whither shall I go to obtain food?"
I absolutely love these two passages of scripture because it is a great example to me of how I should act. When Nephi was told that he needed to build a ship, he didn't murmur, but rather, asked God what he should do and how he should do it. He literally lives the words from 1 Nephi 3:7
"I will go and do the things which the Lord hath commanded."
Then he did the same thing when his bow broke. He didn't complain, he just went and made another one.
So my invitation to you is to not wonder why the bad things are happening to you, but rather focus on what these things are teaching and what lessons you can learn. Don't be bitter, be better!
I love you all so much! Keep me updated on y'alls lives! 

The Loss of a Dear Friend

Chance has been has been experiencing some big changes

during his time across the pond.

Right after Christmas, his dear friend Robbie died.

Robbie was a member of the church from England that Chance

got to know and love. Robbie and his wife have secured a big space in Chance's

heart and he has cherished his time with them.

Robbie was sick when Chance met him and they knew he didn't

have much time left to live.

Chance was able to spend some of the holidays with Robbie and his wife as well

as sharing yummy food and activities with them 

and people who were interested in the church.

Here is what Chance wrote about the loss of Robbie:

He always had a smile on his face whenever I saw him and I immediately would smile because it was just so contagious. He loved having me over and I enjoyed being with him every second I was with him.
Just recently, Robbie passed away. I miss his smile and the excitement he would have every time we talked about motorcycles and country music. He is a friend that will be missed not only by me, but all others who were influenced by him and his smile.


There are many people who have gone through similar circumstances of losing a loved one in their life, whether that be a friend, a grandparent, or a member of their immediate family. These people have many questions that often go through their minds. Such as:


1. Will I see them again?


2. Where do people go when they die?


3. Is our life on Earth the only thing there is and then we're gone?


The amazing thing is, there are answers to these questions. They come from something called the Plan of Salvation, otherwise known as the Plan of Happiness, which is God's Plan. From the Plan of Salvation we learn where we come from, why we are here, and where we go. We also receive answers to many other questions like "Will I see my loved one again?"


The truth is, we do go somewhere after we die. A place called the Spirit World where we learn more about Jesus Christ and his Gospel. It is in this place that we will be able to see our loved ones again.


It is my testimony that I know we will see our family members and others again after this life. We will have the opportunity to see those that we miss so dearly. I know that all of this is possible because of our savior Jesus Christ. God loves each one of us and wants us each to receive of this knowledge of the Plan of Salvation.


I invite you to learn more about the Plan of Salvation. If you already know about it, study it more. If you are new to this knowledge, please send me a message and I will be happy to help answer any of your questions and provide more information about this Plan of Happiness.

Transfers and New Beginnings

Chance has a new companion.

It is common on a mission to be transferred to a new town or get

a new companion every few months.

This past week, Chance's companion was sent to another city to serve

and Chance got a new companion.

It can be hard to say goodbye to companions and cities when transfers occur,

but it is also exciting to get to know new places and people.

Chance really likes the area he is serving in now and 

has met some incredible people.

He also got the opportunity to visit some local sites:

Chance got to visit a cathedral

Chance found a snitch pocket watch from Harry Potter!
Chance's younger brother thinks it is the find of the century.
We are big Harry Potter fans over at our house. 

Here is part of what Chance had to say in his weekly email home:

Ever since I have come on my mission, I have been able to increasingly recognise the holy ghost and it has been such a blessing. Sometimes following those can be hard, but I have come to learn that when we follow those promptings, we feel peace and joy. It's amazing the feelings we have and the personal conversion that happens when we allign our will with Heavenly Fathers. So this week I invite you to pray, and ask God to have the ability to recognize the Holy Ghost. Pray that you will be able to not only recofnize them but be able to follow them. I promise that as you do this that you will feel more peace and joy. I love you all! Have a great week!

Christmas In England

Chance and his companion after they made
their regular everyday sweaters into Christmas
sweaters using stickers etc. at a church members house.

Chance has celebrated his first Christmas season over in England.  There were some wonderful people in England who helped make his first Christmas away from home special.

We got to talk to Chance on Christmas and his companion took a video of Chance opening up the presents we sent so we got to see his reactions.

One of the things that we sent was an apron that just happened to come in a two pack.  Chance and his companion were trying to figure out what it was as he unwrapped it.  Chance had to spread it out and hold it up before they realized that it was an apron.  It is true, that Chance didn't ask for an apron, but it was suggested that missionaries could use one and that made perfect sense so we sent him one (or two).  Missionaries in Chance's mission spend most of their days in white shirts and ties or sweaters so having an apron to protect your clothes while you make your meals makes a lot of sense.

We also sent Chance a set of small wooden logic puzzles that he had to figure out.  He was working on one of the puzzles in fact when he called home on Christmas. For Chance's entire life, he has had something to put together on Christmas.  Some years it was Lego sets, other years it was 3-D puzzles with directions only in Mandarin.  Chance loves to put things together and figure them out.  We figured he needed something on his mission to put . together on Christmas morning to keep up the tradition.

Christmas Pajamas

Since missionaries transfer to different areas every few months on a mission and only have limited luggage space, it is difficult for them to carry lots of extra items around with them on a long term basis.

Being in England, Chance has access to some delicious chocolate and treats so we sent a small dose of goodies he liked from home and then just sent money for him to buy what he wanted there.  Chance would have to transfer and carry a Christmas stocking with him through out the rest of his mission, so instead of a traditional stocking, we sent warm socks with tread on the bottom that he can wear around his flat to keep his feet warm.  And we sent Chance and his companion a set of our traditional Christmas pajamas so now they match the rest of the family.

Chance sent out a heartfelt message this week about Christmas  and The Savior:

Another Christmas has come and gone and we've all had the opportunity to spend it with friends and family. We've shared laughter, gifts, and stories throughout the Holiday Season with those we love. Perhaps you've continued traditions that you've had for years, or maybe even started a new one this Christmas season.

These are all amazing things that we have been able to do over this holiday season, but the real reason why we celebrate Christmas is because of our Savior Jesus Christ. We celebrate his birth and the gift of Jesus Christ given to us from our Heavenly Father.

But it seems to be that after the Christmas season is over, we forget the kindness, the love, and the joy that we felt or gave during the Christmas season and even sometimes why we celebrated Christmas in the first place. The amazing thing is that we don't have to let it stop after the holidays are over. We can continue to be kind and loving. We can continue to experience the joy that comes form our Savior Jesus Christ and learning more about him.

So this year, after the holidays are over, I invite you to not get too caught up in the busy demanding things of life, but rather, to think each day of someone you can be kind to, someone who could benefit from you telling them you love them and most importantly, to continue to remember our Savior Jesus Christ and learn more about him.

I testify that I know that Jesus Christ lives. I know that he is the Savior of the world and has atoned for all mankind. I know that as we draw nearer to him, we can experience more peace, joy, and happiness then we have ever

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays

Making Christmas Cookies

Chance's cookie chilling in milk.

Chance always did love wearing a hat!

Celebrating Thanksgiving and Visiting a Castle

Chance got to celebrate Thanksgiving in England with an American

family. This ensured that he did indeed get some

pumpkin pie for the holiday.

He also got to tour a castle. When one is in England, touring a castle or two should

be a must do activity.

The picture they took as they came out of the castle is breathtaking.

Here is part of what Chance wrote home about this week:

We also had an awesome Thanksgiving on Thursday! We had a member who is from The United States invite us over for Thanksgiving and it was so good and we got to play board games with them afterwards and got to know them some more and that was so awesome! We also had pie and that was amazing! We also gave the father a blessing afterwards because he wasn't feeling too well.

This week I want to share a part from The Living Christ that really stuck out to me. It is in the 6th-7th paragraph and it says:
"Even the voice of Jehovah, saying: 'I am the first and the last; I am he who liveth, I am he who was slain; I am your advocate with the Father'"
I really love this because it is Jesus Christ speaking to us and my favorite part is when he says "I am your advocate with the Father" because he really is our advocate and he really does want us to return to God's presence. He is our older brother, our redeemer, the savior of mankind. He truly wants what is best for us and when we come before God at that judgement day, he will not be telling of our wrongdoings, but rather, will be expressing the good that we did. Because of his Great Atoning Sacrifice, we can have mercy present and he truly is our advocste with the Father, and he wants what is best for us. It is up to us to choose whether or not we will follow him, and learn more about him, and grow closer to him. My invitation to you this week, is to read through "The Living Christ". It is magnificent and if you want to come to know your savior more, that is s great place to start. I know that Jesus Christ is my Savior and my Redeemer. I know that he felt everything that I have felt and that he has felt everything you have felt as well. I know that you can come to know this for yourself, just look to him, pray to the father, ask him with real intent if he is there and if his son Jesus Christ really did atone for our sins, and I promise you that you will receive your answer that God loves you, and that Jesus Christ really did atone for our sins in Gethsemane.

I hope y'all have a great week! Keep me updated on what's going on in life for ya!